relationship trust

Ok here comes the advice in yellow (just kidding, but listen). What you have might be called a mismatch. A mismatch between how you want things to be and how they are/what you find in real life. Even worse is that girls generally do NOT feel attacted to nice guys such as you, who would do almost anything to make her feel good and stuff like that. Solution: don’t be so good and available to every girl you meet, especially not in the beginning, and don’t fall in love immediately, until you get to know her better! Once your trust has been deceived by a person that you love(d), it is very hard to get it back, for some even impossible. You are very afraid that it might happen again (and it could). You feel bad because you have given a lot and got cheated on. Don’t become obsessed with it! There are many girls out there who don’t deserve you, who only deserve their sorry lives they are living. Keep in mind that. Besides, girls see the matter differently, and you would be shocked if you heard a girl talking about how she sees it! Don’t generalize (or try not to). If somebody cheated on you it doesn’t mean that anybody else might do it. Be cautios, NOT gelous!! And don’t stick only on one girl, even if you feel this is right, it’s not too good! What I am saying is: understand and change your perspective. Let me know if you want something more on this topic, I am full of advice today :D