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Ok well I am 15 years old and I have a boyfriend… The thing is some of me thinks im ready for sex but then it doesnt we have talked about it and he has always said I will wait untill your ready… I no its going to hurt and im nervous about how I will react to the pain… Also today he tired to finger me but it hurt a lot so I stopped him… He wants me to give him a bj and he wants 2 eat me out but I just dont like that kind of stuff… Is there anyway to make it as painless as possable? And for me to maybe like getting eaten out or a bj… Any advice would be great

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Answer #1

I dont agree with the women above, it is up to you if you’re ready. but I cant blame him, guys likethat kind of stuff. the key is if you have the LEAST bit of doubt that he will ditch you after sex, dont do it.

   and to be honest, I dont think itll as bad as you think but if you have THAT much pain with him just fingering you then maybe you should use a lot of lube and make sure you have forplay.
   it is not as awkward as you think it would be to talk to him about what to do and what hurts you.
  and at first I didnt like bj and stuff but after I did it, I have to addmit I thought it was fun...I cant help on getting eaten out because I havnt gave in to that yet and not planning to

I hope I helped and like above, relax and itll go ten time smoother.

Answer #2

dont do it untill your completely 100% ready and comfortable and remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education

Answer #3

I’m sorry but at 15 you’re not ready. But if you’re going to anyways just a couple tips…

  1. Relax as much as possible
  2. Ask him what he likes and let him demonstrate
  3. Show him what you like and what feels good
  4. Go really slow and have tons of lube
  5. Try starting out with you on top so you can control how fast and how deep he goes

TALK, TALK, TALK to him. I cannot stress how vital that is.

~Kayla

Answer #4

thanks everyone for all the advice its helped a lot =)

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