I want to get pregant to a guy I just met. and we are both virgins and have never been kissed. what should I do?
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'I am 14. My boyfriend and I want a baby, so what to do?'
Go to bed with him and have sex. Do this frequently for a month and you are almost certain to become pregnant.
In nine months (when you are 15) you will have a baby. It won't be a toy that you can discard when times for its attention aren't convenient for you. It will be demanding and will tax your time and attention.
You will have to drop out of school to give the necessary attention to your child (unless you have a very loving mother who is willing and able to assist you) and you will find that the lack of a high school diploma will come back to haunt you.
You will also find that having a baby interferes with your social life. A lot of your friends will disappear because you and they will be living in 'different worlds' and you no longer fit into their social scene.
Then we come to your boy friend. He either becomes less interested in you because a child doesn't fit into his plans and social life, or he attempts to fulfill his role as a father by getting a job (at the expense of further education) and providing for his new 'family'.
Because of his lack of a good education he may be required to take second-rate jobs. Maybe his income alone won't be sufficient for the needs of the family so you will be required to work too which will create hardships for the child and will lead to family (relationship) problems between you and and your boy friend.
Then there's the possibility down the road that your boy friend comes to the conclusion that he has bitten off more than he can chew and he leaves (deserts) you and the child.
Or maybe as the child is growing you and/or your boy friend take it out on the child for the fact that you've missed out on some of the best times of your lives by having a child prematurely.
True, you, and maybe even your boy friend, may think right now that you and he are able to work things out and overcome all obstacles. That's a nice dream but the facts and life are against the two of you at such young ages and lack of worldly experience.
The two of you would be many times better off if you wait until you are in your early twenties. That really isn't so long a wait and it does give both of you a lot more time to get to know each other and life itself.
We often want what we want, right now! But, if we get it right now we often times aren't really ready for it.
Demonstrate your maturity by giving it time and growing in those ways and with those lessons that are going to serve you for the rest of you're lives -- which will be a very long time.
Get a reality check. Why in the WORLD would you want to do something like that when #1 you're what like 14 or something? #2, you've never been kissed or even had sex, and #3 you've got your whole life to live. Having a kid at your age will seriously postpone your life. No friends, no partying, no life. I seriously don't get why young girls, who probably can't take care of themselves cause they can't get a job, would want to have a kid. AND WITH A STRANGER (someone you JUST met) or someone who's just like them, a virgin and never been kissed. Do you even know how to have sex?
Gaahhh! What's the world comming to??
Hmmm what should you do... let me think... OH I KNOW, I KNOW! Get on birth control, slow down those hormones, get older, get smarter, get an education first, masterbate if you have to, get to know the freaking guy first god dang, if neither work get a therapist. I know I'm telling a lot of people to masterbate but there are a lot of girls that range from 12-16 wanting to get knocked up by random people and they are virgins who've never even been kissed. If you've never been kissed how the frick are you going to have sex? Exactly my point. And chances are that virgin don't want to have sex with you anway...
Why do you want to get pregnant to a guy that you don't really know? I'm sorry but that sounds very idiotic.
If your just trying to get pregnant just to exscape a life you think is horrible now, thats not a way to get out. I don't know if your feeling depressed or what but that was a reason why one of my friends got pregnant. And no her life did not get better :(
Totally agree with sillist, too many young girls wanting to play house and they have no idea what there getting themselves into...I had my daughter at seventeen and was no where near ready to face the responsibility that I had been given...Geez at fourteen I was still playing with barbie dolls!
I don't think you should try to have a baby with a guy that you just met. That's dumb! Wait until you're older and until you had more experience. And especially: Wait until you've met someone you truly love!
your only 14!!! dont ruin your life or bring another life into this world if they won't b welcome!!!
Haha this website has already a lot of pregnant 14 year olds :\ ...
