Would it hurt to have a baby?

This is what’s it’s like, and yes he will go to jail for statutory rape:

-Your pushing something the size of a watermelon out of something the size of a pea. -You are most likely going to tear, sometimes from front to back. -You get stitches. -You get poked in the back for the epidural -The epidural usually just takes the contractions away not the pressure -The pressure is a whole different kind of pain, imagine all your intestines, trying to escape from your vagina. -The contrations are like period cramps times a million. -The nurses are coming in every 30 seconds, to stick their fingers in you to check for dialation, give you a catheter to drain the pee out of you, and to poke around down there. -There the ring of fire, as they call it when the baby’s head crowns, it really does feel like your vagina is on fire and ripping! -There is a 90 percent chance that you will take a crap on the delivery table while pushing, almost every woman does. -You cant eat or drink the entire time you are in labor. -Then afterwards, you have the fun adventure of bleeding for up to 6 weeks. The first time you get up out of the hospital bed after giving birth, blood and fluid gushes from your vagina all over the floor. -You’ll most likely pass blood clots after giving birth too. If you dont get to the bathroom fast enough, they can fall down your pantsleg. -Dont forget, no tampons! Only big nasty pads for the next 6 weeks!

That doesn’t even include the pregnancy -the swollen body parts that ache -the constipation -the hemmroids -the aching breast -the not being able to get up of the sofa by yourself -the strechmarks -the morning (allday) sickness -the kicks the baby gives to your ribs -the frequent urination -the constant pap smears -the blood work

They have medicine that numbs you from the waist down. My mom says that she didnt feel anything. Its just a lot of straining and pushing.

The big truth about pregnancy is that, even with pain relief such as epidural (injection in your spine) and gas & air, giving birth is still painful. You have to give birth to a child which would be as big as a melon. It has to come through a hole the size of an apple. It puts a lot of strain on the pelvis. Some expectant mothers choose to have a caesarian, where they make an incision to cut the baby out. They say it’s a lot less painful that way. Also, water births (where the mother gives birth in a large amount of water) are very popular as the water helps the mother relax her muscles better. There is no danger of the child drowning, because the baby does not breathe until it is out in the air. Once the baby is out, the umbilical cord will be cut (this does not hurt) and the placenta is disposed of. After giving birth, the mother’s breasts will swell and allow milk to flow for breastfeeding. Also, the mother will have stretchmarks, which sometimes never go away. The mother will probably bleed for a while afterwards because of the strain of giving birth. Tiredness will also be a setback for a while during recovery. Apart from that, the mother should have no more problems.

yeah, it would hurt the baby … an ex con for a dad and and a kid playing mom. just what do you plan on doing about the constant crying, feedings, changing, need for round the clock attention? you don’t really think you’ll be doing teenage things like hanging out with friends do you? they’ll be enjoying themselves while you try to fiind a few minutes to shower or nap.don’t for a minute assume that baby is going to think it’s job is to get the two of you a life. just what qualifications do you have the two of you (to parent?). babies are not toys or props. the little darlings expect and deserve to be the center of your universe. if you do this, you will regret it when it is too darned late to undo the damage. babies grow up to either love or resent you as a parent- resent you if they were brought into this world to satisfy your whim- love you for loving them enough to wait until you’re not a baby having a baby for selfish reasons.

what if hes already in there, but gettin out, can they put him back in.? he gets Nov.9th. they dropped the charges against him. im not pregnant but we thought if we had a baby together they would leave us alone

Yes, it does hurt to have a baby…it’s actually one of the most painful things to go through.

And, yes, they can put him away for statutory rape.

damn I get constipated when I start cramping and stuff, and I have hemroids…I couldnt take a crap for almost 2 months ..I tried and tried and tried but couldnt.. sometimes it feels like my stomache is shifting..its hard to explain but its weird..I eat allot more, I can eat somethin like a cheeseburger in like a second..

mz_anonymous Your talking about an epidural, which does not work in every woman. Also, in most women all it does it take some of the pain away, not all of it. You need to feel the contractions to know when to push so they will not numb you the entire way. I dont even know how to describe the pressure. There’s no way to get rid of it either. It feels like all of your insides are trying to push their way out of your vagina and you butt.

taylor_and_jonathan They will put him back in jail. No doubt about it. Having a baby is not something to play with or to do to get people off your back.

Even if her parents allow it HE CAN STILL GO TO JAIL. It does not matter. If the relationship is sexual, which it would obviously be if she had a baby, he CAN STILL get arrested. Dont give her false information.

Also, yes they will pay attention to those things. You have to fill out birth certificates, paperwork, etc. All which ask for birthdays.

no they wouldnt put the daddy in jail if your parents allow it. and when you go to the hosiptal they dont pay attention to those things

he won’t go to jail if you don’t tell anyone who the father is. just keep the secret between the two of you.