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Alright. So I'm having this party. Just one I thought I'd have to hang out with friends and have some fun. My mom helped me put it together and pay for it.
There are a lot of people going. But three of the girls I invited happen to be my best friends. Melissa, Kelsey, and Brianna. Well, we all used to be really close. We had our ups and downs, but it never made us further apart. My party is a week from tomorrow, and Kelsey and Brianna just got in a big fight with Lissa. They don't like her anymore. The invitations were supposed to be handed out today at school. But I held back. Because Kelsey and Bri really don't want her going... but I don't want to just not invite Lissa. That wouldn't be right. I would just go ahead and give her the invitation, tell her that if she feels comfortable going then she can. But Kelsey and Bri aren't very nice to people when they're mad at them.. and Lissa's a pretty sensitive person. I know Kelsey and Bri aren't being good friends towards me at all, but it's who they are.And honestly, If I got in the fight they got in I wouldn't want her going to the same party I'm going to either. But I have nothing to do with the fight. So like, I don't know. I'm confused.
Invite everyone you originally had on your list. To not invite your friend would be unfair. If she doesn't want to go, then she doesn't go. It's not your fault they all go in a fight so don't get in the middle of it. And when you're friends say something bad about your other friend going, just explain how she was already invited and this is my party. They might get mad at first, but soon they'll realize that what you're saying is true. And hopefully they'll understand. Which I'm sure they will.
I would just give the invitation and do as you think you would. you kow like tell her if she feels comfortable then she should go and who knows within the next week their lil fight will be over possibily. anything could happen. and if you give her the invitation later if they end up not fighting anymore then everyone else she might think that was a lil messed up ya know? well yeah hope I helped
