why do i always think about this same person every night?

**figure out what went wrong

Theres one person i think about every single night - this one guy i cared about but let slip away… But every night without a slip im either thinking about how he is, if he misses me, should i miss him as much as i do… Most likely your thinkin about her because maybe you regret letting her go or you miss her and still care about her because thats how i feel

You probably feel like you didn’t get any closure at the end so you go through it in your head looking for some kind of closure, and thats different for everyone.

Its because you are attracted to her.

I hv to agree…I find myself doing the same about my last relationship! It’s like everything was awesome one min, the next its over…and u lay there not wanting to think about them but u watch tv, and something will trigger it..and then the memories all come back…asking urself why…what could it have been that caused it to happen that way…and what you would give for it to be the way it was… Unfortunately when it just isnt meant to be then no matter how hard you try it just wont happen! There is a saying…When it is true love…set them free, if they come back it was always meant to be…if they dont…then it wasnt meant to be! True love never dies…just as there is a cover to every pot…there is someone out there that is looking for you as you are for them. Your paths hvnt met yet…who knows…might never met them either…but the point is…you hv to keep trying to find them. When you do…if you do…u’ll know it! You’ll feel it from with in…and no matter how hard you try to fight it…it will wheel u in eventually til you cant stand it, give into it…and finally be happy! I should know…been there…I let him go…now only time will tell…If it is meant to be then he will know how to find me…and if not then he wasnt mine from the get go!

Their special, they are someone who made a good or bad effect in your life, you can never stop thinking about someone like that. Believe me :)

Yeah i agree thats what happend to me- like i thought those same things…. Eventually you just have to either leave it up to faith or make it happen :p

Like the others said, you maybe still care for her. I think about one of my ex’s all the time even though I will be in a relationship.

I so agree, although sometimes you cant just make it happen…it does take 2 to tango & has to be a mutual decision on both sides then you can really make it happen. If one side just keeps making empty promises & keeps telling the other to patient as months go by with nothing happening then before you know it 6 months are gone & still nothing…then u tend to wonder if ever will & start loosing faith, all kinds of insecurities wind up building up in your head bcz you start believing that its only empty promises of a some fantasy. Eventually you want more then just empty words & when they say you have to be patient…that begins to annoy you til you stop believing in that as well…slowly that all dies…bcz you give them an ultimatum & know you are right but also know they cant do anything about it…so they either break up with you while still being very much in love with you bcz they cant bare the pain they are causing you…and that just hurts even more. Literally leaving you not only so much heart ache, but a pool of doubts for your next relationship(if you can ever seem to get over that last love of yours! Hell I didnt! I probably never will either!) Yeah I hv been there…sad but oh so true! :(

I thought you spelled it right the first time.