It wont feel nice for him?

Me and my boyfriend want to have sex, he said that if you use a condom, his penis wont stay hard for long at all, so it wont feel nice for him… Is this true?

Please help

Answer #1

If you’re truly concerned about it, go on birth control. In fact, you probably should, anyway, unless you have a medical condition that prevents you from doing so.

Answer #2

That’s not true at all, in general. Condoms do take away a little stimulation, but I’ve found they don’t make you lose complete feeling. I’d say maybe 10% of stimulation is lost, at least for me, when a condom is used, but the feeling is still there more or less, and it is still good. Plus, it’s safe and communicates respect.

It sounds like either one of two scenarios- -He’s just being selfish or -He has a problem and it does lose most feeling with a condom, which is not unheard of.

I’d talk to him about it, but if it comes across at all that he’s just being selfish, I’d be extra careful, if not just walk out completely, because it shows a lack of respect.

Answer #3

It ‘mutes” the stimulation a little but if he really cares about you he should more concerned whats best all around. Does he want to be a father so soon and do you really want to take the chance and get pregnant? I was a virgin when me and my long time boyfriend got together the first time and I trusted him to take care of the protection. He Pulled out at the last second… gues what two weeks later I find out im prenant. You deside.

Answer #4

Nope that is not true,

If he doesn’t want to wear a condom then he doesn’t respect you or your body. Tell him, no condom, no sex and see how quick he changes his mind.

Answer #5

If you want to risk your health (HIV, AIDS, syphillis, etc etc), with someone who doesnt like to use condoms, which means he probably hasnt used them with other girls, and if you want to risk getting pregnant, well feel free…

Answer #6

No it isn’t true at all. He’s probably trying to get you pregnant. If it was me, I’d stay away from him.

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