What does that mean when people say 'No elbows on the table'?

Answer #1

Exactly that….keep your elbows off the dinner table - it’s considered rude.

Answer #2

I hope it’s only for the dinner table…

Answer #3

Breakfast too, lol

Answer #4

How is it rude though?

Answer #5

Oh come on, I seriously find this ridiculous!

Answer #6

It’s tough to say where the rule began, but many believe it was part of the sit up straight rule of etiquette in the 1800’s…from there it became a common practical rule as placing elbows on the table could cause the table to tip or food and utensils to be knocked on the floor.

Answer #7

Gosh, where tables really that unstable back then?

Answer #8

lol…not back then, they weren’t - they are now. Back then, it was all about propriety - you sat up straight, never began eating before everyone was served, all men stood whenever a woman left the table, and don’t even think about lifting your soup bowl to your lips.

Answer #9

I think those are good rules to follow :)

Answer #10

Thanks for your help

Answer #11

they dont want you to be rude, so they would like you not to have your elbows on the table. =)

Answer #12

LOL…pretty generic….it is as it says…”Git your bows off the table!!”

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