what should i do? should i cut my hair right now before tomorrow morning before church?
Do not try to please them in any way. It's not your job to conform to other peoples standards.
Get gel/ pomade and shape it into spikes next time before you meet these folks. Or color it green/purple. Tell them you're in a self-discovery phase and you are doing experimental style in order to adapt to your spiritual imbalance.
That will make you a "completely hopeless case" to them and they'll be happy when you return to your usual style.
Or you could...
tell them that you want the girls to scream and faint out of excitement when they see you and _everyone_ knows girls love just that style. Say to their faces that they just envy you for your great hairstyle and your full, manly hair-growth. Admitted... bad advise, trouble will follow...
Or you could...
tell them that you saw a picture of Jesus where he had shoulder-long hair and a full beard. And that you chose this as a guiding example and you want to let your hair grow.
Or you could...
tell them you had a dream about the holy Spirit telling you to not cut your hair until next year.
Or you could ...
go to a different church. Where people are more tolerant.
It's your hair you should wear it the way you want it, until there is some good reason to change because you have to - like if you want to join the army. Too many adults want to control and interfere with every little aspect of young people around your age - they find it hard to cope with the fact that you are developing a mind of your own with attitudes that are actually more relevant than their own.
Take a laugh at some of these 1970's hairstyle that they probably thought were just so cool:
with their flares and platform shoes:
Best wishes - Majikthise.
your hair is fine the way it is it could be that there jelous or something but dont listen to what they say because its your hair and you should follow your heart its either listen to them or dont listen to them its your choice but i love the hair people tell me to cut mi hair cause its long but im only getting a scene haircut because im going to be scene but i already have the look now because i got my hair so thick i cant do crap to it but loveee theee hairrrr:) ambermarie
I like the hair, dont change who you are because someone tells you too! Change how you look because YOU want too! If you don't want to rock your style and be proud. It's all about the confidence! In the end it doesnt matter what they think it's between you and God :)
I like your hair. You don't have to cut it unless you want to and it sounds to me like you don't. Maybe you could just get it trimed a bit so they'll be quiet. But its all up to you. - Katie :)
Whyd on't you just shave their heads and ask them hoe they feel? hehe! Well ur hair looks cool dude maybe u shood try like covering it when you go to church or jes tell em to go away.
Definitely not! Do not cut your hair to make other people happy, only do it for yourself. Maybe you should find a different church to go to, one that will accept you for who you are.
If you're happy with how your hair looks, don't mind them. Their opinions don't matter. You obviously have your hair that way because you like it. That's all that matters(:
People are very insulting because maybe they are insecure about themselves?you leave your hair how you would like.although the style is like short hair..
Their mad cause you have the best hair everr and their old bald people >.< Don't cut it, they just don't know style ;)
its people like in their 30's 40's or older,some older people tell me my hair is fine and they love the way it looks
teehee ppl at my church tell me to get an excorsism ><
they are all just judgemeantal dont worry :)
I love your hair. If it's older people it's cause they want to see your eyes...I get told that 24/7
Haha! Where is nives when you need her? I need her to get u off my back ahah!!
they're just jellies they cant grow long luscious locks liek you!
40 to 50 year old man's idea of a smart sensible hair style:
can i shave you slashdown? i want to shave you O_O
lol YEAAAAAAHHHHHH haha i guess your right :)
dont worry sweety.. they are just jelous :)
cause there fags , your hair is sexy .
know right..... tha mean ppl :\
lil to far lol,thats messed up
not 4 me (:
U kive ut,