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Hey,My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 16 months and have been having sex fo ralmost a year. He feels really bad about himself, cause I dont have an orgasum. Why doyou think that is? It is not like I dont getpleasure cuase I do but I jsut cant seem to make myself. The only thing I feel is kinda like I have to take a piss… is this normal. What does an orgasum feel like.

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Answer #1

babygirl1111- you’re not relaxing enough. try to look him in the eyes and tell him not to stop. There are many things you can do to keep your self focusing on having an orgasm- you just have to figure out what works for you. Something I do is when I cant seem to go but am very close is have him put his mouth to mine and exhale when I inhale, and do this for how ever long it takes. What that does is helps you guys focuse on a rythymn, and for me its a turn on. Try it- see what happens. :) good luck ladies.

Answer #2

If you cant even give yourself an orgasim how do you expect your boyfriend to know how to? my advice is to masterbate and find out what you like and how to make yourself orgaism. There are plenty of helpful tips and info at www.the-clitoris.com its not a porn site, just heaps of useful info, then once you have suceeded in that, show your boyfriend what to do to make you get a really good orgasm, stop missing out and start reading up!

Answer #3

size doesnt matter my girlfriend and I just started having sex we were eachothers first. and I have gotten her off every time and I dont have a so called big penis.

Answer #4

I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half and I still cannot orgasm with him…he can get me soo close and then it wont happen! what can I do or what can I get him to do to make it happen?

Answer #5

wallywolves 8 inches hah sorry pal she asked for help nt cheesy chat up lines

Answer #6

all you have to do is invite me over and I will give you the orgasum of your life! email me mrreins@yahoo.com — sorry I cant remember if there is a period in between the 2 Rs. I have an 8 incher!

Answer #7

I cant have one either I have even had sex with the one guy I love more then anything I just dont fill anything

Answer #8

get a vibrator an hold it to you clit an when your legs shack an you fell a high like never before the thats it baby

Answer #9

Try watching a movie or role playing with him

Answer #10

there isnt anything wrong with you what you sld do is have a sexaual exspence with girl and c if you like it or not you don’t ve to b straight lesbian to like girls you might b bi or just wondering what its like

Answer #11

Hi am not an lesbian but every time my husband and I are having sex I imagin having it with a woman that feel so good is some thing wrong with me .

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