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need help with my girl

well I have a girlfriend and I have been fingering her for awhile now. she squirms and moans her head off when I do it for her. I’ve licked her out and fingered her several times. She still says she has never had an orgasm but when I finger her most of the time her puzzy tightens and convulses over my fingers. am I not doing it right or does she not feel it? or am I stopping before she really orgasms? oh and fyi, the reason I stop is cause my arm and fingers get so freakin sore.

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Answer #1

thanks for the help, I’ll try it next time with her.

Answer #2

This is perfectly normal. When a female is stimulated and close to orgasm her vaginal walls contract, therefore you feel the tightening. You are doing nothing wrong, if you wish to continue, you can maybe quickly swap hands so you keep her stimulated as well as letting your other arm rest. If you want to pleasure her further, you can try to continue by rubbing her clitoris(small button-like part located above the vagina entrance’) with your finger or pleasuring the rest of her body, breasts, erogenous zones etc. Speaking dirty to her can also cause help since for females, as much as it is physical, it is also psychological. I hope this helps! Goodluck :) IF you need more help, you can look it up online, try searching for ‘How to Give a Female an Orgasm’.

Answer #3

hmh why dont you try switching hands or somthing and dont stop keep going

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