My soulmate!!

So there is this guy his name is Tom. We hang out everyday and he has a giflfriend but she lives far away so they dont get to see eachother often. His girlfriends name is Taylor and I am sorta friends with her. I was talking to Tom and he found out that I have a huge crush on him and he confessed to me that he likes me to and I told him to pick between us because I like him to much and I just cant see him going out with anyone else but me. It makes me jealous when he says that they are going to hang out. So I gave him a week to make is decision. I want to show him that I am the one for him. Ever since we met I felt a connection and now I dont even look at guys as more then a friend. A few months before I met him I wrote a list of what I was looking for in a guy and I wouldn’t selltle for less. After I met Tom I lookied at my list and he matches it perfectly. I dont know what I would do if I were to lose him.

Answer #1

haha yeahh he is the one who comes to my house every single fuc*king day. Its not obsessive…

Answer #2

yeahh and I am 18 and so is he… I am not new to this. I have been throught it too.

Answer #3

She knows that we hang out… we are not hiding anything!

Answer #4

Well show him that your not like the other girls, that your something he will miss for his entire life if he doesnt pick you o.O

Answer #5

Ok thats obssessive… well its just too much Give Tom some space, how long have you met each other? You dont even know what kind of girls his looking for even though you do, love is not as easy as you think, sometimes you get what you want but sometimes you get hurt because you find out that they dont like you in the same way.

Tom has a girlfriend and if he does like you as much as you do then dont you think you dont have to give him 1 week to think about it??? If you were his girlfriend and he hanged out with other girls then you found out that this girl made your boyfriend think about who he likes more, would you be happy? I’m guessing not.

How old are you?

You sound like your new to love or something… everyone goes through there where girls would be soo totally inlove with a guy [not obssessive] but only a few get what they want. I’ve been there and trust me its not as happy as you might think it might be and it mostly dont turn out to be your way… and not all boy are perfect, there are somethings that we dont like about a boy and you wouldn’t know that yet, unless you 2 have known each other for a really long time or you 2 are together for a long time either.

All I’m saying is give him space k.

Answer #6

like what tho… thats the problem.. we cant just be doing nothing and love it.. he comes over and we just sit on the couch and talk..

Answer #7

well focus on what he likes if he likes music try and learn something and impress him or if he likes games get games out and play with each other and beat him or if its sport try doing that too.

Just be fun and cool and if he really needs to talk about something be there for him

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