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Can I be with him without being his toy?

I’m a fifteen year old girl and there’s this guy, who I don’t know if I totally like, who is seventeen, turning eighteen soon. he’s been with a lot of girls I think, and I haven’t been with any guys in a long while. I don’t know how sexually active he’s been, but I’m a virgin at least and I’m not sure if he really is. he’s asked me for sex a few times, and each time I both do and don’t want to say no. though he’d do a little feeling up/down here and there, and I can’t say I didn’t like it. as of a few weeks ago, there were class changes in school and I didn’t talk to him so much for a while. the other day, he talked to me again asking if I still liked him. and with the way he put it, I’m hoping I at least get to talk to him again (he’s been a friend, for the most part)

I don’t know if I want to be with him or not (or try to be), so what should I do?

I’m not sure if I want to do everything he does, and I’m definitely not okay with my image (trying to get over bulimia)

is there any advice for maybe being with him but not being his toy?

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Answer #1

wow sorry darling but you are being totally used. you need to read what you just wrote over so you can realize it. I suggest you COMPLETELY forget this horndog because he doesn’t like you, he just wants to use you for sex. he isn’t a friend, or a potential boyfriend, he’s a dirtbag. if you want a guy to respect you, you have to respect yourself first and just say no.

Answer #2

if he is asking your for sex that is all he wants you for. he has no respect for you and he should be turned down. you want to find someone who is going to respect you. any guy asking for something is a warning sign that he is not the guy to be with.

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