my husband wants a threesome with me and ahot young chic. is this normal
My husband of 7 months just asked me if I wanted to have a threesome. When he asked me we were both rolling and I didn't get angry at him. I reassured him I could never share him and would never feel right about being with someone else, even if it were his idea. He knows that when I was a teenager that I had a threesome but I stopped it before we actually had sex. The man wasn't my boyfriend and the girl wasn't someone I knew very well. It was a mistake at a party that I regret. I've told my husband how I feel about that experience and I feel that nothing good came of the situation. It's been 2 days since he's asked me and I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. It feels as if he's already cheated on me in his heart. I feel unattractive, fat, and unwanted. I feel like I don't satisfy him now, previously I thought we had a very fulfilling sex life. I keep wondering where I went wrong. Like maybe if I loose 20 lbs and tone up he won't want another woman. But the thing that hurts the most is that I know deep down I don't want to be with a man that would think of sharing me, and I'm so in love with him I can't bear thinking of life without him. I feel like I need to make a decision, leave him because this is torture and I deserve better or work it out and risk future problems. This is the best relationship I've ever been in and it kills me to think he doesn't love me like I love him. It kills me to think we might have to end our relationship. I never wanted a divorce, and I never want to be married to a man who cheats or wants to cheat.
Most men fantasize about these kind of things.
I'm only 18, but I think I know what I mean by the word marriage is a commitment to ONE person and as you and he were up on the alter he said he would cherish, love, and protect you. Having a threesome would be considered a worldly pleasure, we all have those. Would you want a threesome with him and another hot young man? (Don't ask me XD jk lol)
In any case, I wouldn't allow it because it would go against my religion (That's just me, you may have a different belief, but it's still weird don't cha think?)
alot of married men ask their wives for requests such as these. First, be thankful he isnt having an affair and has come to you with his request, but the fact that he is pretty much saying to you that he is bored with your sex life and wanting to introduce a younger piece of a$$ in the bedroom is total disrespect towards you and you have to wonder if he will continue to be faithful to you if you turn down his request. He married you!! he is only supposed to be with you for better and worse! just remember that next time he asks you.
It is really up to you. Do you want another woman with you and him? Are you curious about watching him w/another woman? Are you curious about being w/another woman?
Love is lasting - sex is just sex. Does he make you feel wanted? The heart to heart talk would be a must. Find out why he wants to do this. And if he would let you have a 3-way with him and another man or to do a four-some with another couple.
its not unusual for a husband to ask and it is normal to wonder if its normal...If you are in doubt , dont do it. Its all up to you. But I suggest you and your husband have a heart to heart discussion and tell him all the reasons you are against it or for it. And suggest or ask of other ways you can fulfill his fantasies other than sacrificng your morals. All the best.
my friend of 20 years of marriage goes with the flow, the request of sex with another couple, she knows he loves her and went along with it. but now going through a divorce because he cant explaine why he wanted it in the first place. she was very sponutanous to his needs. if he loves her so much how could he want another couple in their bed?
There is so many things wrong with this question. You love him right? Ok. Well, then why would you even CONSIDER sharing him with another woman? If he REALLY loved you, he wouldn't ask you this. Honestly, I think you're too good for him. I would say no, and then if he kept pressing the subject, I'd leave his a$$.
it is normal but then agian it ant but i think u shoukd try it but if he like pays more attention to her then leAve him
normal for trailer trash