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Is it wrong that my fiance masturbates?

My fiance masturbates knowing that I don’t like it. It makes me feel sad and that I don’t satisfy him. I asked him to stop and he did do for a year but his bad moods through frustration drove me crazy and I said he should start doing it again to stop this frustration. But now he masturbates all the time not just to relieve his frustration, but for fun. I sound really bad not wanting him to, but it makes me feel like he’s going behind my back!

Should I just bite my tongue and let him carry on even if it upsets me?

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Answer #1

Masturbation is a healthy part of a normal sexual relationship. If it’s too much of an issue for you then he should be able to respect your wishes, and stop. But if you can accept this behavior, which is perfectly normal, move on and maybe join in. Help him finish… or just suggest sex instead.

~Tiffany~

Answer #2

Every guy masterbates hun just get used to it. The only way it will become a problem is if he rather mastebrate than be intimate with you, then you can have a go and whinge all you want. But if he satisfies you sexually then dont worry to much about it.

Answer #3

all guys masturbates, its fun for us,once we start we do it

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