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my ex is my new best friend but my boyfriend doesnt like

My ex boyfriend is my best friend but he lives an hour away. But my current boyfriend hates him and doesn’t think he tells me the truth. My boyfriend thinks that he wants me back which is not true. What do I do to keep both of them?

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Answer #1

tell your boyfriend to forget about him and that you broke it off. tell your ex that you told your boyfriend that you broke it off, but to keep it a secret =)

Answer #2

thats a hard one.

cause first you have to please your partner.

but then also your boyfreind, who is supposed to care about your feelings, shouldnt be selfish and make you lose your bestfriend.

you might be able to find out if you ask yourself, how did I end up being best friends with my ex???

maybe you are trying to recapture the relationship you had with him, the companionship you had, without actually putting a title on him like ‘boyfriend’.

a best friend of the opposite sex is basically a boyfriend/girlfriend. just without the hugging and kissing and other affectionate stuff :)

I think your boyfriend has a right to be cautious, because you did have an affectionate past with your ex.

I also think that you should really consider whos feelings you care about more..

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