How do you make a guy get a boner? Bc sex just isnt working. Hes not gay I sware on my lifeee but he wont get hard!!
Honestly just ask him if you're that worried that something isn't working. I find handcuffing and blindfolding to be fun. (I'm still a virgin but we play around). Handcuffing cuts off his ability to feel you making you the one in control. Blindfolding eliminates the sight but when one sense is eliminated all the others are heightened. Look up how to tease the frenelum, and there's a piece of skin just under us testicals lightly touch those. Do a strip dance or a lap dance. There are a ton of things you can do.
I have the same problem! That happened me and my boyfriend the first time we went to have sex. I mean if it doesn't bother him than say something to him and maybe he can tell you why. But if he does have a problem with it just do something you know has made him hard in the past. I know for my boyfriend nibbling softly on his lip and kissing his neck right under his ear always works!
okay. well. I would say. since im a guy . try blindfolding him do some interesting thing. such as handling things. kissing. licking. sucking. if your into oral. just be naughty.
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find out what turns him on, I'd say just talk to him about it(: