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Mates with benifits

Hey ya im 14years old and me and this guy at school his in gr11 im in gr9 we’ve known each other for 2yearand we’ve been in this relashionship well its more of mates with benifits for like mouth now. But he is giving me dares like fingerign me self but I cant pull myself to do it and he gets me to give him dares back but I cant think of anymore dares to give him what can you think of. We always make out and do stuff but its becoming more of a actual relationship so were like dating now and he wants to have sex I think im ready but I dont no every1 says that you should wait till its like with the person you love and I love him he loves me so is that k lol I want to be wit him.
I love animals my step mum is a vet I have 3 birds 2 cats 1 dog, im crazy out going love my friends to bits I love ma sports heaps love meetin new friends Cya I now my question is bit weird lol but I dont no what to do with my boyfriend , how say dis I need new iders I cant think of anymore lol

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Answer #1

I don’t think sex at 14 is quite the right time…you’re still underage and if you love him, there shouldn’t be a rush. Just keep in mind that if you guys get caught he can and will probably be charged for rape…because of you being underage.

Otherwise if you do decide you are ready just make sure you are on birth control and protected.

:). as for the dare. why not enjoy what you are doing currently? lol…or like dare him to give you the best kiss of your life or something similar…he isn’t the only one that has to benefit.

Answer #2

We always make out and do stuff but its becoming more of a actual relationship so were like dating now and he wants to have sex>>How do you know its more of an actual relationship now? Did he ask you to be his girlfriend? If not, then you are STILL nothing more then just friends with benefits…which means he is just USING you Hun!! 14 yr olds DONT need to be playing sexual games!! This boy only sees you as a sexual object, NOT as a person! This is NOT appropriate behavior for someone your age Hun. This boy is only getting his kicks off you, and its clear he has NO respect for you whatsoever! This boy does NOT love you. Love is NOT sex!!

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