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masterbation--not fun! :( help

im female, and nothing and I mean nothing about masterbation has been fun. stroking my clit, nothing insertation, nadda

what can I do? =\

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Answer #1

Dear xohelpox, first of all, ‘Happy Birthday’. Guys hit puberty and they are almost immediately ready to go sexually. Gals hit puberty and they are all over the map. (The following factoids I have picked up from listening to Loveline since the 90’s.) Most women are not able to have an orgasm shortly after puberty hits. Although they CAN get pregnant.) Their body doesn’t fully mature until they are in their late teen’s or early twenties, and it may take another year or so to figure out the best way to reach climax. That’s NOT saying that they don’t like sex. Most do. It’s more of an intimacy thing. Most women (of all ages) cannot climax from intercourse alone. They need more direct stimulation - oral or manual - to achieve it. A few (3-5%) never get a climax, and some (5-10%?) get multiple climaxes. SO … I’m sure you may get many hints, but understand that it may be a few more years before you get a climax. Remember as you get older to Stay Safe, Take Care of Yourself, and Good Luck!!

Answer #2

Perhaps there is not as much “feeling” down there as it should be. My mother in law ( yes scary that I know this) has to rub testosterone cream down there so she gets “feeling” down there and it makes it pleasurable. perhaps try asking your gyno about this.

Answer #3

You could try some sort of sex toy - if you’re not old enough you could try a vibrating tooth brush, some people use their shower head for stimulation as well.

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