Marriage help

So my boyfriend of 2 years and I live together and want to have kids but we dont want to be married. We are so very much in love but dont need a peice of paper to prove it. Is it bad to have kids and a marriageless relationship?? And also we have been trying to get pregnant and cant. Doc says im fine and he is fine…and suggestions on helping the process??

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Answer #1

I don’t see the point of marriage,except for legal reasons as captain assasin pointed out.

I never plan to get married and if the children is raised in a loving environment, then there is nothing wrong with not being married.

oh and on getting pregnant…just enjoy yourself and it’ll eventually happen.

Answer #2

Well…It would be easier on the child if yall were married. I know I would be questioning my parents if they had me and were still together for 14 years and not married. Make sure you make good decidtions for the baby. Its not bad unless the child thinks soo but you guys are raiseing it sooo you never know.

But if you think it alright then do what my mom did when she wanted to get preganant with my brother…get a fertility shot and try some more.

Answer #3

is it bad to have kids and a marriageless relationship??

No… but a marriage license DOES entitle you to more tax breaks, which would make things a little easier financially when raising a family.

we have been trying to get pregnant and cant. doc says im fine and he is fine…and suggestions on helping the process??

…do it when you’re ovulating… actually… do it all the time. That’s the fun part.

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