Make Out Trauma

you need to weigh up what you like about each one, to figure out which one you like the most , and who you can see yourself being happiest with, not just short term or in the bedroom.

how does each of them make you feel? which one makes you feel safe? which one makes you love yourself? which one could you not stand to never see again?

I know it might be hard to answer questions like that at such an early stage in both relationships, but I suggest taking a pen and paper and writing down the good thing about each guy (not in term of them how good looking they are etc.) but in terms of how they make you feel and what they mean to you. then whichever one you find does the most for you. grab him. and stick to you decision

Sounds kinda disrespectful,but make a pro’s and con’s list!!

Write what you love about each one!

Tbh I think you need a break from both of them for a while to sort out your feelings! It’s not fair to be going out with a guy if you like another!

Honesty and trust is key in every relationship so I really think you should tell your boyfriend about the make-out. Hopefully he’ll understand that you were under the influence of alcohol and if he dumps you then you have the decision made for you which guy you should be with!!