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Just friends...or love??? CONFUSEDDDD!

okay..umm I wudnt usualy do dis.. but im desperate.. I met this guy at college a few months back and we got real close. the thing is he wus goin thru a breakup at that time an I wus always der for him. he kinda messed things up wid his best friend as well so I wus da only one 2 support him. we were real close for a couple of months an den things changed between us an we stopped talkin..the thing is I dunno when.. but I jus started likin this guy a lot.. he takes me as his best friend..but now I cant stand him..an im makin it obvious…maybe its because he dint reciprocate..I duno if I like this guy or not..n he hates it if im weird round him…should I jus give him a cold shoulder? we shared an awesome relationship an he told me stuff he wouldnt tell neone else..but I can hardly consider him a friend anymore. we were more than friends but not quite a couple. he makes me feel like a princess on a lota occasions but hurts me a lot too…what do I do? is he playing wid my feelings?

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The best thing that you can here is be honest with him. Tell him how you feel about him and your feelings of liking him. Then tell him that even though you like him, it’s hard to be just friends with him. If he likes you too, he will reciprocate and everything will be fine. If he is worth being with, then he will take your feelings into consideration and the two of you will be fine. But if he doesn’t feel the same way, don’t get mad, and stay friends. Friends is better than nothing. Kill him with kindness. If he starts to get wierd, he obviously isn’t worth it anyway… not right now anywayz…

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