Why is when a friend or roommate, is always feeling sick or not well , they continually tell you how to take care of yourself. Because you are disabled, right not handicapped. and have yet to be sick. What seems to be the problem? Why do they believe that they can fix you when all the time you know that your not broken.
Ok, Question: Why is it that when someone close to you reads a few self help books you become the first one for them to fix or restore to picture perfect health? when you didn't know that you were broke or unwell?
Ahh, it's so easy to 'see' other people's 'problems', and so hard to spot our own. Maybe these people find it easier to make suggestions to you than they to think about their own lives. But lex_icon is right that you can politely decline.
Maybe because they just want to help, or put what they've learned into practise. You can always politely decline.
