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Is This Love Or Me Being Hopeless?

Well I know this is a silly question, but here goes. How do u know if ur in love?? Cause like my best friend and we went out four times but he dumped me each time. And I just can’t get over him. We’re still best friends and each time I see him I start to blush and I’m happy if he talks to me or hangs out with me. Is this love or is it me being so hopeless that I can’t get over him??

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Answer #1

Thats really not love. If it was love then yall would be together and not just bestfriends.

Answer #2

Sorry to say but its you being hopeless. Its not love. If he keeps dumping you why do you keep going back? That makes you seem desperate. You may like him but if he doesn’t feel the same way there is no point in trying to make anything out of nothing. You can stay friends with him but you need to find someone else. Once he sees that you aren’t paying him as much attention if he really likes you then he will take notice and do something about it. If he doesn’t just be glad that you moved on.

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