Home More advice Love & Relationships
My best friend Tiffany, that I have known for 11 years is never there for me. When people are making fun of her I stand up for her. But when I ask for something it seems like shes too busy. Today I asked her if she wanted to come over, and she said yeah but she would do it later. I called back because it had been a while and she said no she has other plans. They live right next door to me so, its not hard getting to my house. But she said she had company. So my sister called my friends sister, Lorretta and asked what they were doing. Lorretta told her that Tiffany had invited Robert (a boy from school that tiffany is always with) over! She knew I had invited her over and she went ahead and invited Robert over. Lorretta said that Robert wasnt there yet because Tiffany just called him. Tiffany always picks boys over me even when I tell her it makes me upset. She is 14 and has dated a 21 year old on myspace, and a 19 year old in florida. She cheated on Robert with a kid in ohio, and the 21 year old at the same time! I told he what she was doing was wrong...and she got mad. I really wish she was there for me...what do I do?!!
ditch her. I know, that seems really harsh and everything but with friends like that, who needs enemies?
I just had the same problem actually. a total argument. if she's gonna pick a boy over you, then you're just like her something to do when she's totally bored or something. she wants to do what she wants to when she wants to do it. she probably expects you to just jump when she says it.
find better friends.
just because you've been friends for 11 years doesn't mean anything. quaility not quantity.
you can still stick up for her if you want but other than that, I'd leave her be. she'll realize that friends are more important and that these boys won't last forever. when she actually realizes this, I doubt she'll have any friends left.
now, when I say ditch her, I really mean it. you can still be nice to her and stuff, but next time she wants to try and hang out with you, just say you've got plans with someone else or make up some sort of excuses.
it's very harsh, but she doesn't seem like the nicest person at the moment either.
If she's going to treat you like that you shouldn't even be friends with her. I know that might hurt since you've known her for awhile, but it'll be better for you. And after you stop being friends with her she'll realize how much she misses you, and would want to be your friend again. Besides, I'm sure you have other friends that respect you. Hope that helped you make a good decision (:
That friendship should be over because she not being a friend back