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Is Love Really Blind??

I have been with my companion for almost 4 years. I would not say its been the most perfect relationship, we fought a lot and broke up for a 6 month period. But as soon as I started dating someone else that’s when he wanted me back. I live with him presently but know hes telling me he loves me but does not want to be with me anymore, because of my trust issue. He says after all these years he should have all my trust. Which I do agree with but to me that’s something I cannot give overnight, he says he is just tired of everything. He loves me but does not want to be with me!! To me that does not make sense… I need advice because I am begging him like a dumb-ass to keep me around and that I can change overnight. Please Help!!

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Answer #1

Thanx for the advice! Now he says he is willing to go to counseling and try to see if we should be together or not! am I wasting our time? Should we know whether or not we should be together, or is it okay to get an outside point of view??

Answer #2

You can still love some1 and not want to be with them. Trust is very important in a relationship! Its hard when you have invested 4 years of your life with one person, and that person leaves you for another person. Hes obviously tried to get back what you 2 1ce had, but is finding it impossible to cope with what you’ve done. Sometimes you just get to a point where you can no longer fight for happiness, and he sounds like he is giving up trying! Some people know exactly what they want, and can stick with it! Sounds like hes made up his mind on you!

Answer #3

The perfect man and the perfect woman never meet until their f**ked up in the head from past relationships or mistakes made by one another. Do yourself a favor dont stand in his way. Take life 1 day at a time. Because when its over EVERYTHING STARTS TO REMIND YOU OF HIM. So take it slow you have your WHOLE LIFE. And next time always have an idea in your head that things can be over with your significant other at any time for any reason.

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