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I dont know what to say to this great guy!

I met this guy about a month ago. We went out for coffee and on the first date we clicked instantly. He's actually everything I've been looking for; smart, funny, handsome, a great listener and very patient and understanding. Its now been 8 dates we've been on and everytime Im with him it feels right. He's asked me if we should become officially boyfriend/girlfriend.

This is my problem, however. Im still a bit scared since the only other guy I've been with cheated on me and therefore I dont know if I can fully trust him to not do the same. He said he'll never hurt me but can I trust his word just yet? He's also been on 20 dates in the past 9 months (all only 1 or 2 dates) and says they mean nothing because he's found me.

What do I do? I want to be with him but Im scared of opening up my heart to get hurt again.