Is having anal sex painful for a girl ?? I need advice ??
OK,
Guys will often tell girls ANYTHING to let them into their backdoor.
Please DONT believe the following lies that guys often use to get anal sex:
1) EVERYONE does it! (EVERYONE DOES NOT DO IT! Please dont do it because your guy tries to make you feel as if you are in someway Weird or abnormal because you DONT want to do it. Also, please dont do it just to keep him happy or to just stop him going on about it.)
2) If we use loads of lube, it wont hurl. If we stretch it with fingers first, it wont hurt. If I put it in real slow, it wont hurt.(lies, Lies, LIES!!! - Whatever you do, for at LEAST the first few times, it WILL hurt like a MOTHERF*CKER!!!)
3) If it does hurt, I will stop. (What he really means is that he will try and finish it off quicker by going faster and will try and talk you into letting him finish. Some guys will even make you feel as if there is something wrong with you if you say it hurts too much. Dont let them GUILT you into it)
4) You dont need to use a condom for anal. (YES YOU DO! Anal sex is one of the main ways that HIV is passed on. You can also catch other sexually transmitted diseases as well as other blood transferred diseases such as Hepetitis.)
5) You cannot get pregnant from anal sex. (This is true. ALTHOUGH, if sperm runs out your butt it can get into your vagina which will be a risk of pregnancy.)
6) Anal sex feels great! YES IT DOES. Mainly for HIM!!)
Some women do grow to enjoy anal sex but many dont. And many who tell their partner they enjoy it secretly hate and dread it but go along just to keep the guy happy.
There. Now you need to decide if you want to try (and there is no reason why you should not try it if YOU really want to and you understand the above points) it but dont say you were not warned if after trying it, you find yourself walking like a cowboy who has lost his horse!
:-)
Kiasu
Hey, if it hurts, good! men love it when it hurts you and you should be ready to do anything to please your man and make him happy. when my boyfriend bums me it hurts ALOT but i dont mind as long as he enjoys me.
well im a guy so I don't know bout that but my crazy friends says it hurts...its like being a virgin again, but this time in your butt
