Is there a Muslim here who is willing to talk?

I am not Muslim so I don’t know how your family feels on living with a guy. I am sure it is like a lot of American families though. I want to say that I think you are great for living with your boyfriend and not having sex! Maybe if you explain this to your Mom(as ackward as it may be) she will see that he is a good man. Let her know that you love her and you are going through a hard time right now and really need her to be there for you and not shun you! My Mother has a low white blood cell count. They have tested her for EVERYTHING! They can’t find anything wrong with her so she just keeps getting blood tests done every month. She had gotten very sick and the tested her but ever since then she has been fine. She has not been sick again. So maybe it is nothing. Just don’t get yourself sick over it and try not to worry until you talk to your doc again. Things may seem terrible now but hang in there. God has a plan for us all and though times are hard this will pass. From what you have said I can’t see how you have been a bad Muslim. You seem like a good person who loves her family and has a great guy! I will pray for you and if you ever need to talk then just write me. God bless!

I am not a Muslim, I am a Christian, and my heart goes out to you. It is awesome that you have enough self restraint to live under the same roof with a young man, and not have sex. That is really something !!! I admire you tremendously.

If you are 20, then you are old enough to go ahead and get married. I do not know how things are in your culture, but, that is the way it is in ours.

Everyone truly wants the blessings of their parents, but, sometimes, couples end up married without the blessing of the parents. Most times, I would think, the parents eventually see how much the couple love one another, and accept the marriage.

Given the fact that you love your mate, and you are already living together, it would seem only natural to me, to marry.

It can def. be a problem, when two different faiths merge. It is according to how devout each person is to their own set of beliefs, as to whether they can bridge the differences and still stay compatable.

It would seem to me, more important than the families beliefs.

When you take a spouse, it is for life, hopefully, and he then, is your family. Hopefully your biological family will one day accept you as a couple, if not, then be prepared to make it on your own.

I would suggest much prayer on both sides, to find a solution to this.

As to the way you are feeling, this is stress and it will make you sick. You need to find peace, and let the worry go. Stress can affect all areas of our bodies, including bringing us into depression.

Find a way to let this go. Concentrate on making yourself feel better, before you get sick. God loves you, he is not mad at you. He will help you, if you seek him. Get in touch with him, thru prayer. Allow his spirit to minister to your spirit. He can bring the peace that you need, he can also, find solutions to the problems, that you face. Trust him, seek him.

Please funmail me, if you would like to, I will be more than glad to pray for you, also, here are a couple of prayer lines where you can place prayer requests:

wjcr.org click on prayer - they will not answer you, but, they will pray

godswork.org

dailyguidepost.org

God be with you…(((hugs)))

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thank you

well I am not a muslim but I am a hindu and I am a very good listener so if you ever want to talk just fun mail me