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Im carrying his child, but he cheated on me.

I am 33 weeks pregnant, and my boyfriend told me he was cheating on me with one of my friends because he felt out of control, I read a fathering book and it says pregnancy is a stressful thing and you’d be surprised on how much of a percentage of guys cheat on there pregnant misses but that’s no excuse. He got an apartment to clear his head and the mistress ended up basically moving in for the two weeks he had it, now he is breaking the bond and moving back in with me, but we’re not together anymore and I’m still finding little things pop up everywhere like him leaving her a myspace comment saying hey babe keep your chin up xox and all of this is killing me more than the fact they slept together, I don’t know what I want anymore, we had and still have a great connection but I need some advice on how to make him wake up to himself that if he decided to be on good terms with me he has to get rid of her fully. Please Help!

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Answer #1

Cheating only shows his TRUE character! Maybe you havent heard the saying >Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater.<

You cant make him “wake up to himself”…he is who he is! Just because you are carrying his child, doesnt mean he has to be commited to you…he is the babys father, and thats all it looks like he wants to be. You cant make someone want to be with you just because you are pregnant. I dont know why you would even want to be with a guy who has no respect for you or your feelings?

Answer #2

Kick his butt to the curb because your the one thats carrying a child and going through pain he’s not. And if the chick he’s sleepin with calls herself your friend cut her off to. Because a real friend would be there with you. And please make sure you tell his butt to get out of yo place and find his own. The only contact between you 2 needs to be about the baby because apparantly he’s not man enough to stick with you. The only reason he told you probably is because he feels kinda guilty.

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