Im Broken

I never got over it so I don’t know how you will

My girlfriend was the same, her last boyfriend cheated on her and she never trusted another guy for 3 years. Then she met me and she started trusting me fro the first week we started to talk and get to know each other. It’s just who you feel comfortable with and learn who you can trust and who you can’t.

Its always hard afta being cheated on!! theres so many questions… like whats wrong wit me, what am I not doin right… why? is she better than me… and if you have thought any of that dont its not your fault…u are fine the way you are. now being able to find that trust again is gonna take alota work first things first you havta give people a chance. not everyone is gonna cheat but there are a lot of men out there that are gonna. u’ll learn over time who you can and cannot trust. I’ve been cheated on many times by multiple men and now I’ve been in a relationship for 2 years. you havta be happy with urself to be happy with someone else

This is tuff, for me I never built a wall. When I got hurt then started dating someone else I had to tell myself that this person is not the one who hurt me, so I would put it all out on the line again, and so what if I got hurt again, I would rather love and feel the pain then to have never loved at all and felt nothing, I say just be who you are and don’t changed just get smarter about the type of guy you date.