im affraid to pleasure my boyfriend :(

I lost my virginity recently and have had sex a few times but im afraid to go further, I’ve been fingered but nothing else…im affraid to give my boyfriend head or a hnd job because I dont even know where to start…like how to position myslef or even start, im affraid ill do it wrong…any advice?

Answer #1

okay … wildbilly wtf are you talking about?

as for the actual question. it’s okay to be nervous. and as for how to start. just try suggestive touching (neck chest ears inner thighs etc.) then slip your hand into his pants. he should naturally lean back. when it comes to hj’s it’s really just a 2 step routine. 1 - up 2 - down lol. and if you’re not really sure you can ask him. as for position? if you are in a bed get him to lye back and you deal with his .. lower half. if on a couch or a seat you can pretty much just reach over lol. it;’s not very complicated. you have to understand there is no real wrong way to give hj’s he won’t complain I promise

and bj’s (willybilly listen) when a girl gives head it’s not about her enjoying it. it’s a display of love. that you would do something you don’t enjoy for your partner. as I’m sure he would do the same. it’s like you scratch my back I’ll scratch yours. if you do something you don’t particularly love I’m sure he will do something for you. because it’s about making the other person feel good.

Please remember you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do

Answer #2

ok look its not really that hard…! At the start of my realtionship with my boyfriend I was nervous 2 bcoz it was da 1’st time I’d b ever doin oral its not 2 bad but it wouldn’t be my favourite, al you havta do is dis , (it works 4 me) just start kissin your boyfriend and slowly let your hand linger off on it own start feelin him up den let your hand slowly go down his pants (if you’re nervous bout tossin him off just keep your mind focused on kiss him den just slowly let urself toss him off den when e’s hard just move away from his lips and start kissin his neck, den slowly move down 2 give him head, al ya havta do is play wi it wi your tongue (lads love that) den slowly go in and out but just becareful that your teeth don’t scrape off it bcoz lads say its sore and dey find that unattractive…hope dis helps.

Answer #3

‘wildbilly’ are you on fukkciin drugs…? Your a fukkciin moron go get some gosh damn help you dumbazz ..And for the question… they prutty much said what I would have said(:

Answer #4

You could also have him show you how he likes his dick touched, guys are the masters at giving themselves a good hand job.

Answer #5

Hey kido. Only 29 women out of a hundred give head.Really.Girls are programed to not give head. Who wants to taste that? Ok here’s the scoop,are you ready? The good looking women driving around in expensive cars,are the blowjob masters.A woman is cast aside in the world of money,if she doesn’t know how to make her man scream. If you don’t blow,U better go. I’m telling you this–You owe me.Your life now is a half million better.Watch the porn girls,they move their head.beside,well places licks are solid gold

Answer #6

Talk to yer boyfriend. Its normal too be nervous just relax if yer always scared of everything you’ll never have fun in life. If you feel yer reeeally ready to take the next step then tlk to yer boyfriend and find out what he likes, maybe while you’s are making out gradually like start feeling around his thighs,kiss and nibble on his neck down his chest then when you get to his boxers just do your thang ^.^ ha..its fine to be nervous don’t worry as long as your sure yer ready.

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