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Now me and my ex have been together for about a year (in july). But first we lived in Utica,NY and he was the love of eternity, and now since we relocated to Georgia he is all about running around. I recently found out i am pregnant, and he wants this, but he is talking to other females telling them i am just a friend who comes over when we live together! Then he accuses me of cheating and lying. I left him 2 months ago and on his birthday he begged me to come back, first he started out sweet, but now he yells at and calls me stupid and thats the way i feel for coming back! But i am only 17 and in july i will be 18 but i need help getting a house that i can afford for me and my baby(due in nov). Im just so confused andi need some guidance, i go to church but that doesnt help, i talked to section 8 and its a waiting list. PLEASE HELP NEED ADVICE

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Answer #1

First of all, if u know that he’s cheating why do u put up with it? I’m pretty sure u believe that ur baby should be born in a home where both of the parents are there. But think about it, in the long run maybe ur baby will suffer more than if u leave the father…Section 8 does take a long time my Mom was on the waiting list here in L.A. for 6 years…Why don’t u stay with your parent’s? Maybe that will be of more help for u and the baby…I understand that u might be in love with the father, but think about it, if he’s denying u and u both live together then honestly this is going nowhere…Sweetie, “Once a Cheater, Alwayz a Cheater” Hope this Helps…

Answer #2

in my opinion i would talk if possible to my family and close friends. and ask there opinion– since you just found out you were pregnant. i would find a job if you havent got one already and save a much as you can. no extra spending. dont think about him in the streets and with other women because it’ll run you crazy and if your crazy and cant think straight then there is no way you could do you and take care of your responsibilities. get a job or go back to school. and if possible go back home. he’s just a man your young and just like you found love in him trust me when you leave him god will put who he wants in your life. take a chance, this isnt love it infacuation and leaving now before your a bitter and broken women before 20 is the right choice. put your self first—

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