I don't know...

oh another thing ishould add, she lives in newyork and ilive in virginia. and ifeel like that kinda has some type of affect on it…cus maybe since im not there with her to experience all these things she goes through, maybe thats why she doesnt really tell me anything, iduno.

thanks to the people who answered :]

I’m actually going through the same thing. But I do have a reason to any - she lied to me ): Bust as for you I’d go and talk to her about it. Tell her you think things are getting awkward between you two and you want to fix it. Plan a girls night out. Talk. Communication is important!

Just keep doing your best if you always want her in your life - may be that you’ll never be ‘as close’ because often people change as they grow - so, hang in there…I wish you the best !!

confront her its pretty much normal to drift away… I dont really have any of the same friends as I did in elementary or middle school its wierd but you should move on I guess

I went through this with my best friend, it still hurts. it actually hurts so bad that I won’t make new friends, and I learned not to keep my old ones close. it messed my brain up. this probably cause part of my depression disorder. I don’t know what you can say to her, but I’m just letting you know how it can end up. I hope this doesn’t happen, the best of luck to you!