I think I have a controlling boyfriend

I need advise. Is my boyfriend controlling? I went out for one of my bestfriends 21st birthday to a club. My boyfriend was not able to go. He was thinking the worse and telling me that I was going to get drunk and hook up with different guys, never once have I ever cheated or done anything like that. I got back late and I didnt call him. He called me over 100 times and I had 15 voicemails from him, he got mad because I didnt pcik up my phone cause I was sleeping. Yet, he is convinced that I had another guy in my bed with me. I slept in my bestfriends boyfriends roommate bed(he is in a different state for the summer) My other best friend slept in the bed with me. She is a girl, he is convinced her and I have done stuff, I am not a lesbian nor am I BI. He is now telling me that he hates me and I make him sick. Also he tells me I drink all the time and I don’t, he hates my best friend and blames our fighting on her. I am so confussed and I dont know if I should still be with him. Oh and this is NOT the first time this has happened…