I still love her. Does she still love me?

I started dating the girl of my dreamsd 6 months ago. And then out of the blue one night a week ago she dumped me. She told me that she still wants to be best friends, and that maybe after my mission we could get together. But then when we had a normal hang out session with the group of friends, she wont even acknowledge my presence. She said that she wanted to be best friends. Why does she ignore me as if im an enemy. Any advice on this would be great. I still love her more than anything in the world. But it seems obvious she has completely gotten over me and has no interest in being friends. She swore that I had nothing to do with the breakup and that it was counsel from her parents and friends that its not the best thing to be in a realationship in highschool. The most we ever did was kiss, not make out,just little kisses. So why exactly did she dump me, say that we should be best friends, and then completely ignore me and treat me as if I am an enemy.

Answer #1

Wow!well look Realistically speaking your ex girlfriend could simply just be trying to get over you.and by doing so thats why she ignores you its not that she doesnt want to be friends with you but just doesnt want to hurt you or get your hopes uo by doing so if its not her intension to get back with you.Give it time but show little interest so she can feel confortable around you again and little by little youll see where that leads whether you get back or not.I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK!

-Christina

Answer #2

In the same situation dude. Still looking for answers and hanging on. One thing I know. If I do move on then it would mean my love for her wasn’t enough. And its been 10 months so I don’t really see myself moving on now or anywhere in the future. If I don’t get her back I’ll mostly be single and enjoy a life of no responsiblity ( Thats the plan ^_^)

Answer #3

wow dude I know how you feel same exact position I would seriously give my life for this girl if she just asked… but eh I guess thats how the world goes still hoping though

Answer #4

I am in exactly the same position we went out for a year and then for no reason she dumped me, said she preffered it when we were friends. were still friends and get on relatively well but I still am madly in love with her. its been 9 months since we broke up but im still hoping you should too

Answer #5

been together for 12 years, two lovely kids together, had a pretty active, adventurous sex life over that time but the past year she does not seem to want sex from me as much, I have often felt her next to me in bed, shuddering with self pleasure as she thinks I am sleeping, seems to prefer that to pleasure from/with me these days, I am very loving and not sexually selfish, and I fancy her just as I did the day we met, Im just not sure that she feels the same anymore…

Answer #6

I’m in the same position. I’ve liked her for over a year and finally asked her out this year… she broke up with me right before our 2nd anniversary, telling me she doesn’t understand me, and I don’t understand her. It still doesn’t stop me from loving her, you know..? She said she wanted to be my friend, but she doesn’t have ANY interest in me anymore. Not even as a friend. She doesn’t even have intentions of talking to me. Now, every morning I wake up and every night before I sleep, I cannot stop thinking of her. It’s painful. I love her so much, and she doesn’t realize it. I try to say hi to her and talk, but all she answers with are ‘okays’ and ‘oh’s. It’s painful. Holding everything in… I loved her enough to let go, but I regret it so much.

Answer #7

Well sometimes a girl wants to go out with someone else but maybe it could be a differnt reason like my boyfriend broke up with me after are school dance didn’t say why just it’s over and I know how you feel I still love him and I’ve been dating other guys just to find someone else like him !! Which makes me even more depressed when they break up with me !! So hopefully we will both get are love back . Best wishes

Love Camille <3

Answer #8

same with me the best girlfreind I ever had dumped me out of the blue. we were fine during te day and then she just text me later that night saying that it just wasnt working. I still love her so much and she just doesnt realise it. I’ve tried talking to her but she just ignores me. I’ve talked to her friends and they all say she still taks about me a lot. what should I do about it?

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