Do you think we should be together?

okay so I meet this guy named jordan when I was 13 and now im 15 and hes 15 too.me and him went out for about 8 months after we meet but we got into a fight so we broke up and then didnt talk for about 6 months.then he texted me again and we went out again.because everytime we talk we end up dating again.well after we started dating again we broke up.then all this happened again but this time when we got back together he cheated on me.we have not talked for about 3 months.then on this wednesday he called me and we talked about everything he said he was sorry.and I do believe him.and so now he told me he likes me again and he asked me if I would ever date him again and I said maybe.this is really long and if your reading this thanks a whole bunch it means a lot to me but um my question is do you think that me and him should be together? I kinda think we do because I have not stopped loving him since I met him and he told me he feels the same way.so I kinda think that that means something.we always end up going back to eachother. do you think we are meant to be together???

Answer #1

hunny, I know from experenice at that age, most boys aren’t ready for a serious relationship. You two are VERY VERY young! and if you do go back with him, just think of how much time you’ve wasted on this guy that likes to argue and cheat on you. I know your young now and you think you love him, hell you might even truely do love him, but if he is doin that to you, its not worth it! I was always told, “if you were sorry, you wouldn’t of done it!” I feel in love with this guy at the age of 14, we got together when I was 15 and we would fight and he cheated and I kept takin him back. I even moved in with him and some of his friends. We stayed together til I was 18, and ready to go to college. An because of all the fighting and cheating brought down my self esteem and didn’t think I could make it. But my family talked me into going out of town for college, and the guy wasn’t happy and we broke up. I am very happy now, but wish I didn’t waste those 4years…

hope I help hun!! Sry its so long!

Answer #2

I’ve been in that situation, were there is this one person who you know is good/bad for you and whatever the situation you always end up back with them on and off. Thing is, I don’t see a problem with you being together, as long as you both know your on the same terms. HOWEVER going in and out of a relationship is not healthy if you keep getting hurt emotionally, because it does stay with you and thats not good :( and also, if he’s cheated in you, he probably doesn’t see this thing in the same way you do, it may not be quite so meaningful to him( at least not at the moment.) On the other hand, everyone deserves a second chance I think, but its in your hands whether or not to give him the oppurtunity to prove to you he actualy wants to be with you. Hope I helped : )

Answer #3

no

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