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Why can't I have an orgasim with my husband?

I am 20 years old and I have been with my Husband for almost 2 years now ,but for the past 4 months I have been unable to have an orgasim when we are having intercourse, And I don’t know what I can do to help because he thinks that I’m not really interrested in him if I finger myself to get off well we are having intercourse. I don’t understand I have never had any problems like this before and I’ve been having intercourse sence I was13 I know it’s young to start out ,but why now Why can’t I have an orgasim with my husband?

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Answer #1

try to spice things up to get you really in the mood

Answer #2

It could be you are trying too hard. That fact that you haven’t had an orgasm with him and you having sex is stressing you out. Try having a glass or two of wine the next time you plan to have sex. It will help to relax you and maybe you won’t be so stressed about orgasm. By the way, there is nothing wrong with touching yourself during intercourse. If it bothers your husband that much, just tell him you are trying to have an orgasm at the same time he does.

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