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Should I be with more girls before getting serious?

Im with the first and only girl ive had sex with, and ive been with her for about 8 months. should i get with more girls before i get serious so i know i got what i want?

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Answer #1

Hello there, 8 Months is quite a long time for any relationship. This is where you need to make a mature decision on whether or not you believe she is the one for you. Imagine yourself 10 years from now. You are still standing by her side, hand in hand. Does that bother you? Would you grow bored, or annoyed? The purpose of dating is for marriage, so if you’re not in love with her yet, she’s not the one for you. Always remember though, that girls are very sensitive. Be sure to communicate with your girlfriend, be honest (ALWAYS). Without trust, love would never exist. But also keep in mind that this is your life also. So be fair to yourself as well as towards your girlfriend. Explain to her that you believe you should both sort of venture off from each other so that you will both be able to see what else is out there. If, in the end, you both end up back together, then it was meant to be. But if not, then you will both be very grateful for taking such a huge chance, because it saved both of you, heartache. Best of luck! Feel free to ask me questions, anytime! ~Lady

Answer #2

dude you only need to have one girl to make you happy. do you really look at other girls and wish you were with them if she truely makes you happy? i didnt when i was with my ex i loved her and sheliked me but things just didnt work but for that time i was truely happy if thats happaning to you then you dont need to date other girls.

Answer #3

To be with a girl just to enhance the number of girls you have been with is a bad way of love-life. But if you became really interested in an other girl than your permanent partner is forgivable if you are a beginner.

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