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Should I break up with my playa boyfriend?

uhm so me and my boyfriend jacob have been dating for almost a year now. and here lately he seems to be talking a lot to two of my best friends. and it kinda makes me mad cus I know they like him and im pretty sure he likes them. and they always call each other. and my two friends are always flirting with him constantly, and I told them that I didnt like them flirting with him, but they keep doing it. and of course he flirts back. and I dont know. should I break up with him or what? and what makes it kinda worse is that jacob is kinda like a playa I guess. like he wants stuff constantly from me and if I dont do stuff with him he’ll flirt w/ other girls to make me jelous so I will do stuff with him. and it makes me mad, and I really do love him but im really confused.

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Answer #1

Youre only 13 yrs old. What are you doing letting some idiot control you? A controlling boyfriend is not a boyfriend. Dating is suppossed to be fun. It’s not right for either of you. This is NOT a healthy relationship………Relationships are hard work, but they’re not suppossed to feel like hard work. there is no excuse for control. It’s not flattering, it’s abusive. If you think that by doing EVERYTHING he wants you do to will make him stay with you, girl you’ve got alot to learn! When he gets his fill of you, i guarantee you, he will move on and find another victim to control!!!

No one should ever do something sxually that they are not comfortable doing, and no one should ever feel pressured into engaging in any kind of sx act. Partners in healthy relationships respect each other’s wishes. No one should manipulate another person to do anything sexual.

People demonstrate love by being there for each other, solving problems together, sharing hard times as well as good times, helping each other grow, and being patient with each other.

This boy does NOT respect you whatsoever, and hun, you dont even respect yourself, to lower your morals for this jerk! The way in which you allow yourself to be treated by others is a reflection of how highly or lowly you think of yourself. The amount of respect that you have for yourself shows in every area of your life. Essentially, the decisions you make to speak up or shut up shape the ways in which other people perceive you. Don’t let other people victimize you because you’re too scared to speak up for yourself. Teach yourself self-respect and others will treat you better.

You need to dump this jerk, and fast, before he beats you to it, and lowers your self esteem more than he already has!

Answer #2

I suggest you ditch ALL OF THEM! He doesn’t seem faithful to you, and your friends clearly aren’t either. If they were true friends they would respect your wishes and not talk to him on a regualr basis. If you feel this is worth saving, I’d try talking to them all about it. But honestly, I think you are just wasting your time.

Answer #3

thanks a lot guys for this. i dumped him today. i still love him and everything, but i feel better about myself now. thanks <33

Answer #4

Will all i could tell you is that both your friends is talking beind your back. N i hate to tell you this lil mama they had sex with him. or they are plaing on to.

Answer #5

i had a boyfriend like that before and u need to dump him becuz its gon get worse, becuz if he really love u then he want do anything like that and if they was really ur bestfriends they want do anything like that either to you. but dump him and tell ur friends how u really feel and MAKE them understand,ask them how would they feel if u flirt with they bf’s and if u wanna get back at all of them…then flirt with ur friends boyfriends so they can see how it feels but go head and DUMP him…u can find better i know u can…someone that will treat u right and if it comes down to it GET NEW FRIENDS that are REAL friends!!! but do what u really really think that u should.U CAN DO BETTER THAN HIM

Answer #6

don’t break you p with him sit down…who am I kidding just break up with him he is using you

Answer #7

Yeah I completely agree with angelfire.. NO need for you to feel like that at all!!! Dump him.

Answer #8

I say hell yeah !!! but before that you gota get him back. you tlk ta hiz friends. b a flirt that every girl know’s how ta b! then act as if your just not into him anymore and break it iff

Answer #9

should I break up with him because after we kissed he started being protective over me and ask me when you are coming over everyday

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