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Should I move in with him?

I GOT AWAY AND I AM IN LOVE WITH THIS OUT OFTHIS WORLD GUY…DAMN I AM SO LUCKY SHOULD I MOVE IN WITH HIM?( TO GET THE HOW I MET HIM STORY GO TO I’M OUT OF IT THANKS FUNADVICE USERS)

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Answer #1

Dear sharen, First of all how long have you known this guy? You must take some responsibility in staying in your past abusive relationship. You must get yourself healthy first before beginning again. This takes time and counselling…as it stands you are what we call a rebound girl, meaning that the odds are very much against this relationship working because of the timing. It takes months to recover and for some years. But there is a recovery period that everyone must take so they do not make the same mistake. Slow down and get to know him as a friend first, see how he handles stress, problems, how he interacts with his family and friends. What happens when he isn’t on his best behaviour? Sue…good luck

Answer #2

I agree with Sue. He sounds great, and if he’s as wonderful as you believe he will respect the fact that you need to take your time after escaping such an abusive relationship. It would be awful to end up in another situation you regret, but if you take your time on this one then maybe it will end up the relationship you’re dreaming of. If it doesn’t, at least you haven’t put yourself and your baby in another difficult situation.

And I’m really glad to see your good news - well done and very best of luck!

Answer #3

You just got out of a abusive relationship according to your last post. I think its to soon for you to be moving in with some other guy already.

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