How to find out if she likes me?

well, you could try and make a move, and judge things from there by her reaction, it could be a number of things, she could be playing mind games, she could be trying to be polite, showing off, shy, nervous, or telling the truth, could be loads of reasons. yeah she might be scared, that your going to end up like all the guys who havent treated her right, if you do make a move and she acts positivly towards it, make it clear how much you care about her and your not going to be like these other guys, and all that she has to do is give you a chance, if she genuinely does just want to be friends, I think shes been careless and cruel if she is flirting with you and comparing you, so if she does want to be friends and friends only but still compares you, make it clear that she shouldnt be comparing you because your only friends, or just come right out and ask her on the spot if she likes you because you like her.

you could write her a letter with everything you want to say and either mail it or let her read it infront of you, at least that way you have had time to thin kabout it and you wont forget what to say. tell her your not been pushy or clingy but you simply want to know if shes interested or not, and if she isnt you can move on with your life and find someone who is. hope this helps, good luck and let me know how you get on :)

Erin x