I dont see it!! how can I get him to show me he truly loves me?

im loosing it really I am soo tierd of trying soo hard in this relationship and I get nothing backk..what do I do??!

Answer #1

it dosn’t matter how old or young you are…it really up to the person themsevles some guys don’t show affection or (love) cause might not know how…I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months. not every guy is like that well my boyfriend was 16 when we started to show affection other than sex like hugs, kisses, tell you they feel like this so you have to think about it maybe he just scared of sayin it you know…maybe he wants to wait because you can’t just be like why don’t you love me you know…guys show it different ways like some guys buy you stuff to show they love you or scratch you head when your laying down or cuddle with you when your alone…or just be like do you really love me??? it’s no hurt in asking…no matter the age some people show love differently…think of it like that…hope that helps

Answer #2

EXACTLY–I agree with gcumbr1. listen to them, they’re right. guys at that age aren’t thinking with their brains… and if you were lucky enough to get a mature one, then maybe he’s showing you by his effort..what he really feels. if your not gettn nothin now, your not gonna get much a couple months down the road. you either communicate or you make some DECISIONS. don’t ever waste your time !! either one of u.

Answer #3

If he is the same age as you, (17), Then you are asking too much. Guys don’t really show affection/love the way you want them to because they haven’t matured enuff yet. Most teen males don’t look much farther than their noses, and think mostly with the wrong head. The love might be there, they just don’t know yet how to show it, or even think about it as much as women do.

Answer #4

def. once you get older, ALL this is gonna change. once you finally let go, you won’t even be able to remember this guy’s last name lol. I’M TELLING YOU THE TRUTH.. don’t you know I went thru the same exact thing as you when I was younger ?!?! like..almost every girl goes thru it. in due time, you will see..u CAN let go.

Answer #5

lol it wouldn’t be something stupid, it would be something you had to go thru to learn from :D

and no prob, take care. :]

Answer #6

dangg and that is what I feel like im doing sometimes butmost times its good and I love him soo much he always been there forr soo long that I feel like I could never let it go.

Answer #7

omg I feel the same fuckin wayy like I’m the onli one trying in this shit and I wishh someone would answer this so I couldd read too.

Answer #8

Oh to be young again…NOT !!!

Answer #9

If you were to date a guy that is 25, it would be a completely different story.

Answer #10

yeaah and it just happends too be my time..im ganna look back at this and think how stupid I was ha thanxx guyss

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