I cheated on my ex, left him. Now he wants me back..

take some time to work on your self first.. stay away from any kind of relationship with any guy for a while … quit smoking drinking and any unhealthy habit .. work on your self esteem.. exercise to improve your body and feel better about your self.. focus on your job or study improve your life in general.. pamper your self.. relax and go out with friends ..but stay away from relationships for a while because your hurting your self and the guys too … become a better new you and sort things out in your head.. if you really love him get back together with him after you work on healing your wonds and put the past behind you and start over … if you found out that your not that inlove with him get just move on tell him before you ruin his relationship with his current girlfriend .. it will be a fresh new start .. fresh relationship with out mistakes during that time give your ex the time to sort things out in his head .. does he really still love u.. can he really look past what happend .. can he really forgive you and not bring things up every now and then in the future and make you feel bad about what happend.. is he really not inlove with his girlfriend,,, remember that your goning to ruin another girl’s life by getting back together.. try to think of all aspects like he is living with her now .. is he going to move in with u.. or out and in a new place on his own until you get used to the new situation and new relationship then move in together.. avoid digging in the past.. playing the blame game.. making each other feel bad about your past relationship and so.. just start over if it is what the two of you really want.. he wants you back but do you want him back? answer a lot of questions and share the answers just communicate more to figure things out without arguing fussing and hurting each other… but before all that you need the time on your own for your self to get back on your feet and make sure you will stay there on your feet then when your strong enough and ready start on sorting things out… keep the connection light between the two of you during that time so you stay connected but not too involved.. you dont want him cheating on his girlfriend and making him feel bad about him self … you dont want to be the other woman who happens to be the ex … you dont want to find out later that you dont want a relationship with him after you made him breakup with his girlfriend moved out because you dont want to feel guilty later on about ruining his life and keeping the connection light because you dont want to lose it completely so he moves on and stays with his girlfriend when you want him back… you need to be careful and wise in your decisions from now on