How to tell someone to backoff, and them know your serious?

Your friend doesn’t have to be mean, just tell him that she wants to be left alone. Let her give him a fair warning… if he still peruses. You may step in, only if she needs it.

You just need to let her make the first try, for his fair warning. Then if you step in… well can’t say she didn’t warn him.

well my bestie asked me to tell him. And disneyworld, im not upset that he’s dating other girls, I could careless what he does. I just dont want him involved with my friend because she deserves better but I know she wouldn’t go for him any way, and he is kind of overly protective to the point he can be a bit violent, I would rather he forget about her now while he is just starting to like her so he wont try to boss her or something…trust me he will do it!!

heres the thing: you guys are already broken up. if I were your friend, I would tell him that I’m not interested, but I wouldnt scream at him. if hes flirting with other girls, let him. you guys arent together anymore so if hes with other girls you shouldnt get upset. maybe because you seem like an overprotective girlfriend, he didnt want to put up with that. if you hung out with other guys, would you want him to get mad at you?