How to tell him I don't like him..

I have been with this guy for about two and a half months.. Not even long at all! He’s a super sweet guy but he just gets to me. He’s always upset with me for something, he’s really clingy because he has no friends, he’s moving WAY to fast for me. We were together not even a week and he told me if he was 18 he would propose! Not to mention already telling me he loves me.. We’re not together but he thinks we’re getting back together sometime soon… which I don’t want. Also, I was with this guy a while ago, never lost feelings for him. I’ve known him for six years now and I can’t ever get him off my mind. I’m crazy about him and it was never obvious until now! He feels the same about me. I don’t know what to do and how to tell him I don’t want to be with him though..

Answer #1

ok 1 lets tackle the first matter at hand the CURRENT boyfriend. ok he sounds very serious and very full on but im shure its just because he doesnt have anyone else he can appreciate and talk 2 although he seems very very full on. breaking up will be hard for him as breakups are if a guy gets dumped there just as miserable as some ladies are. it wont be easy but just ease the situation and say “ hey im not really feeling it anymore your really serious and thats making me uncomfortable and I dont think we should go out anymore” simple suttle and stable.

maybe you should have seperated the post between the 2. its a little weird reading something about a guy you dont like then throw a final curve telling us youve known some guy for six years and you both like each other. maybe you should have split posted it. just it seems tottaly different to your original thats all.

anyways good luck

:)

Answer #2

Ok.. sounds like a big soap opera.. but all soap operas do have an ending.. that’s pretty sad that he has no friends, but life goes on.. correction, your life goes on, what you need to do is just break it down, tell him what it is.. you do not want him exactly for the previous reasons stated. dont lie to him, just tell him I personally feel you are a little clingly, and you move to fast for my liking.. maybe he’ll use this advice to better improve his next relationship.. then you’ll be doing him the favor.. good luck.. xx. superfresh.

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