I have been with my girlfriend for 3years now. And for a long time she use to moan and be really loud in bed. Her moaning turn me on much more. But for the past months she hasn't done that at all. I know shes not cheating on me or anything bad because we talked about it. She just says because she thinks she doesn't need to. She also said that she'll start doing it again because it will make me happy.
But it bothers me that she will do it all because I want her to.. Thats not what I want.. I want her to moan because thats what she wants too not just me.. Now I feel like either way im not going to be happy now.. Any advice?
you should ask her why she did it in the first place, maybe thought she had to at first (meaning when you first started having sex). I guess you hung up on that she is doing it because you ask instead of her doing because you doing a really good job in bed. you should ask her if you are doing "good" and if shes happy, along with why she did it in the first place.
Have you tried something new? Have you tried eating her out? Well I think maybe tring something new that will really plesure her maybe will work. Try looking up sex postions and try different thing and look at her reaction when your tring them the one where you get most reaction from trying doing that for a while hope that helped