How to get my girlfriend to give me some attention again

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for around10 months and living together also and lately she doesnt ever want to spend as much time with me and not to mention the fact that we may have sex only once a month now but I really dont bug her about that much anymore all I want is some affection and attention like it used to be also we havent slept in the same bed in a really long time either, plus she spends a lot of time talking to different guys on the phone that live in different states, except for lately shes been talkin to one a whole lot, see the weird thing is is that we act pretty normal most of the time despite of everything but then she does things like that and I try to keep the relationship exciting , I get her flowers and do a lot of little things like that but even though she says she loves me I just dont feel it. I basicly just need to know what to do to get her attention like I used to and not to mention to get her to start having sex again that would be nice too.

Answer #1

u might be trying too hard to get her attention. I agree with the two other people saying you need to back off.. dont pay as much attention to you and she will either a) miss your attention or b) not care. if its A then she will come to you trying to get attention. if its B, then move on

Answer #2

let back and see how she reacts. start going and doing stuff, it should get to her. but I don’t know , I love getting attention still from the guy I’ve been with. I don’t know , she might be looking for someone else, but try that first and see

Answer #3

Well I just read in a Men’s health magazine about a similar situation what I recommend you do is talk to her and tell her whats going on with you and with you guys. Tell her how you feel and that you see your guys relationship crumbeling setting “boudnries” can help. For example if they are just friends she doesnt need to be talking to them all the time .b .c remember the time you spend with friends are limited. Do something special for her take her out let her remember the awesome times you guys share.have a actual conversation with your girlfiend b.c usually averaging around 20 min a day is how much couples talk to eachother about Non bill related things. the reason she is probably on the phone all the time and talking to other guys is because its something new refreshing its all the positive things andonly the positive things like humor, flirting ect. which makes her only see the not so good things in your relationship. Maybe what you need to do is “spark” the relationship agian so you make her feel like that first month you guys were togeter for (if it was fun and exctiting). and vice versa.

Answer #4

sometimes when you are too nice to a woman she forgets to appreciate it.. try maybe taking a step back like I told my sis who as engaged to break off the engagement cause their relationship seemed to be getting worse and now they are like they were before.. also.. you might spend too much ime together.. having your own thing is important.. so have a guys night out every once in a while.. that might help you two refocus

Answer #5

dude, shes looking for someone else. break up w/ her before she finds one and dumps u.

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