how to get him back?

Be careful! Dont let him think he can and get used to being able to kiss you- but not be in a relationship with you. Of course you want to hug and kiss him, but you need to set boundaries so you dont get hurt and so things dont get messy. If you want him to get the feeling back- give him time and space but make it clear that out of respect for the feelings you still have for him- it would be best to keep it strictly friendship only. It sounds like he has respect for you -to tell you the truth- sounds like one of the good ones! So, respect his wishes and allow him time to figure stuff out and see how he really feels. Give him the chance to miss kissing you, being close to you- show him what he is missing - allow him to see it. Please remember: ‘If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, its yours. If it doesnt, it was never meant to be.’

I’ve been in that same boat. Let me tell you it sucks!!! My advice for you, is to just be careful. Dont get your heart broken, The guy I used to be with did the same thing, we still kissed and had sex..but because he was getting some still without the whole being in a “relationship” it didnt work out. He found someone else, and just wanted to use me for his “needs”. Or course I have more class than that. and told him to get lost. My advice is if he wants friendship…give him friendship..but dont let him think that you cant live without him. let him sweat a little. :)

Look, it would be best to give him time. If he truly wanted you and cared about you he’d just be waiting for YOU. I was in the same situation but the opposite end. And waiting just a few days I found out something that made me not want my ex anymore.