How to get a girl in bed?

I partly agree with the answers given here so far, there is some truth in it. You cannot treat women as sex objects and only be after sex. That’s not how it works. However, this also doesn’t answer your question in any way, and I think the answers here have not been very helpful.

There IS an answer to your question. It’s not a simple one, as you might expect, because women are not simple. But the thing is, there are some things that women find attractive and things that turn them off. If you want something to happen on a physical level with women, then you need to start doing things that are attractive.

I cannot give you the key to “getting laid” or whatever in this short answer, because this is a skill that you must practice. You must actually go out there and try these things out on many, many different girls until you start to get a hang of it. But here we go.

a) Start acting like you already have dozens of women in your life. This sounds like strange advice, but it’s one of the best things I could tell you. Would you like to go to bed with a shy girl that doesn’t know what to do around men, or would you prefer a girl that has five other guys running after him and you know that she has picked YOU out of all these men? This works the other way around too, and it’s an even stronger motive for women.

Women like guys that already have women in their life. Start building a great social life so you always have people to hang out with and you’re always busy with something fun. That is very attractive.

b) Stop indicating your interest directly. At the most, hint at your interest. Treat women like they’re just one out of many. This works especially well with really beautiful women - she’s used to seeing men getting interested from the VERY FIRST MINUTE they see her. Be different, and treat her like a friend.

In fact, that’s my next advice:

c) Treat her like your bratty younger sister. If you take this mindset, it’s going to take all the nervousness away. Tease her exactly the way you’d tease your younger sister. No other man does this, and you will definitely make an impression on her.

d) Be physical with women, all the time. Get used to touching women on their upper arm to make a point. If you see signs of interest, do slightly (slightly!) more of it. Touch her on the small of her back. Just be comfortable being physical.

Try these things out for size. If you want to read more, I actually wrote a full-length article on this as I was looking around Google for the answers. The things I found were similar to the advice given here - just treat her nicely, and so on. Not very helpful.

So I also wrote down the 5 most commonly given pieces of advice that are wrong. Check the article out here: http://howtogetagirlinbed.weebly.com.

• Peter